Father Appears Before Shari’a Court for Assaulting Wife, Says He’s Only Correcting Her

Lukman Soladoye, a loving father of four, recently stood before the Shari’a court in Magajin Gari, Kaduna, on charges of assaulting his wife, Kemi Soladoye, and their four children, Aso Naija Reports.

The court proceedings, which took place on Tuesday, November 21, shed light on the situation and offered guidance on resolving the family’s conflicts.

During the hearing, Mr. Soladoye admitted to physically disciplining his wife and children as a means to correct their behavior. He expressed his deep love for his family and his desire to provide them with the best upbringing. However, his actions raised concerns and prompted his wife to initially seek a divorce due to the constant assaults.

Later in the proceedings, Kemi Soladoye had a change of heart and decided to reconcile with her husband. Through her counsel, B.A Tanko, she implored the court to intervene and ensure that the defendant refrains from physically abusing both her and their children.

Responding to the plea, Judge Isiyaku Abdulrahman addressed Mr. Soladoye directly. The judge advised him that resorting to violence was not the appropriate way to address issues within a marriage.

Instead, he encouraged open communication and expressing discontent without resorting to physical harm. The judge emphasized the importance of treating one’s spouse with respect and compassion.

Regarding the children, the judge firmly stated that physical punishment was not the sole method of correction.

He urged Mr. Soladoye to show love, affection, and guidance to his children, emphasizing the significance of prayer and offering advice when necessary.

In light of the circumstances, the judge assured the complainant that the court would closely monitor Mr. Soladoye’s behavior. Furthermore, he urged her to promptly report any further instances of assault, ensuring that appropriate action would be taken to protect her and the children.

By addressing the issue in court, the Shari’a legal system aims to safeguard the well-being of the family and promote a peaceful resolution to the conflict. The proceedings serve as a reminder that love, understanding, and non-violent means are essential for nurturing healthy relationships within the family unit.